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- あなたを驚かせる33の愛の事実
- 1.愛は長寿を促進します
- 2.愛と欲望は脳のさまざまな領域に影響を与えます
- 3.赤いバラは愛の公式の花です
- 4.愛は本当にあなたにクレイジーなことをさせます
- 5.世界最長の結婚は86年間でした
- 6.愛はあなたをより共感的にし、あなたの感情と調和させます
- 7.愛は段階的に発達します
- 8.愛はあなたの血圧を下げます
- 9.愛はあなたがより速く癒すのを助けます
- 10. Men Fall In Love Faster Than Women
- 11. Being In Love Reduces Headache Frequency By Half
- 12. Love And Laughter Go Together
- 13. Long Distance Can Strengthen A Relationship
- 14. Being In A Relationship Can Shape Your Personality In A Positive Way
- 15. Love Can Ease Chronic Pain
- 16. Cuddling Is Actually Good For You
- 17. Love Is Chemically Addictive
- 18. Love Is The Number One Reason Why People Get Married
- 19. The Heartbeats Of Couples Synchronize
- 20. Animals Commit To Monogamous Relationships As Well
- 21. Hugging Your Partner Can Be An Instant Stress Reliever
- 22. Falling In Love Feels Like Being On Drugs
- 23. It Can Only Take Up To 4 Minutes To Feel Attracted To Someone
- 24. Both Guys And Girls Must Have Required Testosterone Levels For Sexual Attraction
- 25. Being In Love Has Neurological Effects Same As That Of Cocaine
- 26. Couples Who Are Very Similar To Each Other Are Not Likely To Last
- 27. Heartbreak Is Real
- 28. People Who Are In Love Have Chemical Reactions Similar To People With OCD
- 29. Butterflies In The Stomach Are Real – They Are Caused By Adrenaline
- 30. Dilated Pupils Show That You Are Attracted To Someone
- 31. People Are Attracted To Those With A Different Immune System
- 32. Some People Can’t Feel Love
- 33. Your Body Has A “Vein Of Love”
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あなたが愛について考えるのをやめるとき、あなたはおそらくカップルが抱きしめたり、手をつないだり、あるいは単に一緒に夕日に向かって歩いたりするのを想像します。実際、あなたは自分があなたの夢の特別な誰かに恋をしているのを想像するかもしれません。あなたはあなたの完璧なパートナーに欲しいもののリストさえ持っているかもしれません。興味深いのは、「恋に落ちる」ときに発生する生物学的要因がたくさんあることです。今日の時代では、愛は過度にロマンチックです。したがって、あなたはおそらく愛についてのこれらの科学的/真実の事実に気づいていません。
関係の事実は恋に落ちることはエキサイティングなことができます。空はもっと青い。色が明るく見えます。障害物が消えます。新たに発見された愛のおかげで、全世界はより美しい場所のようです。これはすべて真実ですが、脳から放出される化学物質が原因でこれらの感情の一部が発生していることも事実です。愛についての科学的事実はあまりロマンチックではありませんが、実際には非常に魅力的です。愛がスーパー以上であることを証明する、愛についてのこれらのあまり知られていない事実を見てみましょう。
あなたを驚かせる33の愛の事実
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1.愛は長寿を促進します
愛と結婚とともに、長寿がもたらされます。 Journal of Marriage and Family に掲載された研究によると、既婚者は、結婚したことがない人と比較して、8年間で死亡する可能性が58%低くなりました(1)。
2.愛と欲望は脳のさまざまな領域に影響を与えます
一夜限りのスタンドが自動的におとぎ話のロマンスになるわけではありません。研究によると、恋をしていると、共感につながる脳内の領域が活性化されます(2)。しかし、欲望は脳のさまざまな領域、主に動機と報酬に関連する領域に関連しています。
3.赤いバラは愛の公式の花です
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なぜバラが恋人たちに選ばれた花なのか考えたことはありますか?それは、バラがローマの愛の女神であるヴィーナスの絶対的なお気に入りと見なされているためです。
4.愛は本当にあなたにクレイジーなことをさせます
シーンを作るのと同じように、刑務所から逃げて愛する人に会うか、ただ馬鹿げた演技をします。アリゾナの囚人だったジョセフ・アンドリュー・デケニップに何が起こったのか知っていますか?彼はバレンタインデーのためにガールフレンドに会うことができるように刑務所から脱出した。
5.世界最長の結婚は86年間でした
6.愛はあなたをより共感的にし、あなたの感情と調和させます
あなたが自分自身の最高のバージョンになるように努力させる人を見つけると、あなたの脳もそれに応じて反応します。科学雑誌である Cognitive、Affective&Behavioral Neuroscience に発表された研究によると、幸せな関係にあることに伴う社会的つながりは、感情的な処理と無私無欲の原因となる脳の部分を活性化します(3)。
7.愛は段階的に発達します
愛を経験したことのある人なら誰でも、それが段階的に発達することを知っています。徐々に強度が増していきます。それは徐々にまろやかになり、より成熟した理解のある愛へと続く執着から始まります。
8.愛はあなたの血圧を下げます
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高血圧症としても知られる高血圧症の人は、脳卒中から心臓病まであらゆるものとの関連を知っています。幸いなことに、 Annals of Behavioral Medicineに 掲載された研究によると、幸せな結婚は血圧の低下につながる可能性があります(4)。あなたを健康に保つためにあなたのパートナーに行ってキスしてください!
9.愛はあなたがより速く癒すのを助けます
Having your hubby by your side when you are injured or sick doesn’t just get you emotional support. When partners share a close bond, injuries heal way faster when compared to those who are in an openly aggressive relationship with each other.
10. Men Fall In Love Faster Than Women
A study published in The Journal of Social Psychology states that men take the first step when they fall in love (5). They are mostly the ones who say “I love you” first in a relationship. This may be because females are more scared of being heartbroken.
11. Being In Love Reduces Headache Frequency By Half
Researchers at the Stanford University School of Medicine found that 50% of participants having a headache reported their pain to be cut in half after around four hours when they were administered a nasal spray with a dose of oxytocin, the love hormone (6). An additional 27% stated that there was no pain at all after the same duration.
12. Love And Laughter Go Together
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13. Long Distance Can Strengthen A Relationship
People often say that long distance relationships can’t and don’t work, but research says otherwise. According to a study published in the Journal of Communication , long-distance relationships are not only as successful as regular relationships, but they are also better at building trust between partners (8).
14. Being In A Relationship Can Shape Your Personality In A Positive Way
Pessimistic people are known to change for the better when they find a little bit of love in their life. A study published in the Journal of Personality observed 245 young couples for around nine months (9). The scientists found that neurotic partners in a relationship became more self-confident and optimistic, thanks to all the positive experiences and emotions that come with being in a relationship.
15. Love Can Ease Chronic Pain
Love isn’t going to replace modern medicine any time soon. However, it can come in handy if you ever experience serious pain. In a study conducted by the Stanford University School of Medicine, researchers found that the warm and fuzzy feeling that love creates has the same response in the brain as strong painkillers do (10).
16. Cuddling Is Actually Good For You
There’s a good reason that couples love those snuggle sessions so much. Cuddling triggers the release of oxytocin, the happiness hormone, that betters your mood and increases your feeling of well-being. This phenomenon is so well-known that oxytocin is actually referred to as the “love hormone” or the “cuddling hormone.”
17. Love Is Chemically Addictive
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Romantic love is a very powerful addiction. This is because the hormones that your brain releases when you fall in love or are in love are euphoric. In fact, you may get so high that it can make you feel addicted to love as well as to the person you are in love with.
18. Love Is The Number One Reason Why People Get Married
More than 60% of the world’s population cited love as the reason they got married. The rest stated that financial stability was also an important factor.
19. The Heartbeats Of Couples Synchronize
When you and your partner gaze into each other’s eyes, what’s really happening is that your heart rates are syncing up. This has been stated by scientists at the University of California (11). The researchers have found that the couple’s heart rates were almost identical. This may be because of the strong link between couples on both physical and emotional levels.
20. Animals Commit To Monogamous Relationships As Well
Humans are not the only species in the animal kingdom that have monogamous relationships. Wolves, seahorses, beavers, otters, and barn owls are just a few of the other species that mate for life.
21. Hugging Your Partner Can Be An Instant Stress Reliever
Feeling extremely stressed? Hug it out with your lover. According to a study conducted by the University of North Carolina, psychiatrists found that when couples hugged, they had increased levels of oxytocin in their bodies (12). As mentioned before, oxytocin lowers stress levels and boosts mood. If you are having a rough day, doctors prescribe a long, tight hug!
22. Falling In Love Feels Like Being On Drugs
According to a study, that feeling of joy and euphoria you experience when you fall in love is essentially the same feeling that drug users experience (13). Both incidents trigger the release of hormones like adrenaline, dopamine, and oxytocin, giving you a real high.
23. It Can Only Take Up To 4 Minutes To Feel Attracted To Someone
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24. Both Guys And Girls Must Have Required Testosterone Levels For Sexual Attraction
Yes, even girls have small amounts of testosterone in their bodies. Testosterone is responsible for creating desire as well as aggressive behavior – which actually pushes the person to pursue the object of this desire.
25. Being In Love Has Neurological Effects Same As That Of Cocaine
Being in love is almost like taking a dose of cocaine. Both experiences affect the brain in a similar way and trigger a similar sensation. Researchers have found that being in love can result in the production of several euphoria-inducing chemicals, which stimulate 12 areas of the human brain at the same time (14).
26. Couples Who Are Very Similar To Each Other Are Not Likely To Last
As everyone knows, opposites attract. Research also proves that this is at least partially true. Partners who are too similar or too different don’t last very long. There must be similarities, but there also have to be differences so that the two of you can learn from one another.
27. Heartbreak Is Real
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There is evidence that severe traumatizing events, such as a divorce, death of a loved one, break-up, physical separation, cheating, or betrayal, can cause real physical pain in the area of the heart. This condition is known as Broken Heart Syndrome (15).
Intense emotional distress triggers the brain to release certain chemicals that weaken one’s heart, leading to shortness of breath and chest aches. The condition is so intense that it is often misdiagnosed as a heart attack. It affects women more often than men.
28. People Who Are In Love Have Chemical Reactions Similar To People With OCD
People in the early stages of love have lower levels of the hormone serotonin, which is directly associated with feelings of well-being and happiness. They also have higher levels of cortisol, which is associated with stress. This is very similar to those people who have OCD or Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
This explains why we don’t behave like ourselves when we fall for someone. It works the other way as well – people who have lower levels of serotonin tend to fall in love and get involved in sexual relationships quicker than others.
29. Butterflies In The Stomach Are Real – They Are Caused By Adrenaline
When you fall in love with someone, you can feel the butterflies dancing, flying, and fooling around in your tummy every time you see your special someone. They are caused due to adrenaline, which is released in your body as a flight or fight response.
30. Dilated Pupils Show That You Are Attracted To Someone
Darwin has stated that pupils expand during heightened focus and attention. This is true indeed, as this mostly occurs when people gaze at a beloved one or an object of desire, even if it is only a video or a picture. Moreover, people who have dilated pupils look more attractive to others as well.
31. People Are Attracted To Those With A Different Immune System
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If this isn’t weird, we don’t know what is. This was observed during a study run by Claude Wedekind of the University of Switzerland. He had female test subjects smell worn T-shirts of men (16). They consistently preferred the smell of those men’s shirts whose immune systems were different than their own.
32. Some People Can’t Feel Love
Some people who claim never to have fallen in love or felt romantic love are affected by a condition called hypopituitarism, which is a rare disease that doesn’t allow people to feel the high of love.
33. Your Body Has A “Vein Of Love”
Why are engagement rings worn on the fourth finger of the left hand? That is because the ancient Greeks believed that that finger has the vena amoris, or the “vein of love,” that connects straight to the heart. So romantic!
愛と魅力は複雑なものであり、時には率直に言って奇妙なものです。初期の気持ちをナビゲートするのは難しいかもしれませんので、完全に飛び込んで高みを体験してみませんか?あなたの愛の生活を客観的に見るとき、あなたが嫌いなものに注意し、それらを変える計画を立て、そして前進してください。自分の条件で人生を送るチャンスは一度しかありません。あなたはすでにあなたの人生で完全な幸福と愛を達成するために必要なすべてを持っているので、それを恐れないでください。あなたはただ手を差し伸べてそれをつかむ必要があります。ではごきげんよう!
16のソース
Stylecrazeには厳格な調達ガイドラインがあり、査読済みの研究、学術研究機関、および医師会に依存しています。3次参照の使用は避けます。編集ポリシーを読むことで、コンテンツが正確で最新であることを保証する方法について詳しく知ることができます。- Cohabitation and U.S. Adult Mortality: An Examination by Gender and Race, Journal of Marriage and Family, Semantic Scholar.
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- The neural correlates of social connection. Cognitive, Affective & Behavioral Neuroscience, US National Library of Medicine, National Institutes of Health.
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- Is There Something Unique about Marriage? The Relative Impact of Marital Status, Relationship Quality, and Network Social Support on Ambulatory Blood Pressure and Mental Health, Annals of Behavior Medicine, ResearchGate.
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- Women and Men in Love: Who Really Feels It and Says It First? The Journal of Social Psychology, Taylor and Francis Online.
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- Oxytocin and Migraine Headache, Headache, The Journal of Head and Face Pain, Wiley Online Library.
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- Putting Laughter in Context: Shared Laughter as Behavioral Indicator of Relationship Well-Being, Personal Relationships, US National Library of Medicine, National Institutes of Health.
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